Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Do you need to have any previous knowledge of Tantra to do the sessions with the Goddess?
Any knowledge you'll need before the session I will give you over the phone. Some people like to read the book first, however I personally like to learn by experiencing something and then reading about it. So what you read about afterwards in the chapters I suggest, will have much more meaning for you seeing you can apply it to your experience. The goddess will give you the book at the session.
I’ve had a tantric massage. Does the goddess do that?
She can give an excellent Tantric massage where you get to experience your sexual energy running through your body. However, in a massage you are only receiving, there is no interaction with the woman. You don’t get to experience her sexual energy or learn anything about what to do with her. It can be a good introduction if that’s what you prefer or it suits your budget at the time.
I’ve heard tantra involves non-ejaculation, is that right?
It can and there are some benefits. There is definitely a benefit in not coming too soon so you can allow your woman to go into higher states of pleasure. Tantra certainly teaches you that. However, having intercourse without ejaculation may seem a strange idea at first. A lot of people say: “Well, why make love? That’s the best part!” It appears to be the best part until you learn how to experience other forms of orgasm. You are taught ways in Tantra of having an internal orgasm called a Valley Orgasm – where you feel totally satisfied like after orgasm, but you don’t feel drained.
This certainly helps when your sex drive is less than your partners because you can make love a second, third or fourth time. Of course just hanging on to it isn’t healthy and it can make you irritable. It’s very important you are taught ways to spread the sexual energy so that this is not a concern.
Another benefit of learning to build energy through non ejaculation is that when you do come, you will be amazed at how powerful it is and so will your partner! For a lot of men, as they get older, ejaculation is more like a blip than a roar.
Most men think they orgasm when they ejaculate. However ejaculation is only one form of orgasm and it is small stuff compared to ‘whole body orgasm’. You learn about this during the sessions
Can these sessions help with virility and maintaining an erection?
It is written in the ancient texts of China and India that it was common for emperors, kings and noblemen trained in the arts of lovemaking to be passionately making love in their eighties with up to twenty consorts or lovers, all of whom they were keeping sexually satisfied.
Obviously I am not suggesting you will be able to do anything like this in one session but it will certainly give you the secrets of how to work towards a virile sex life throughout your life.
If you decide to not do anything about it now, then unfortunately you will end up like many men with prostate problems, lack of desire or even if you have the desire, you won’t be able to do anything with it. You can end up dependent on medication and no-one knows the long term effect of that. Medication can be helpful on occasion but if you would like to learn the secrets developed over 2,000 years of study and experimentation, written about in Tantra which relate to sexual virility of any age, then this could definitely be a worthwhile investment for you. You will see results during the sessions.
I feel a bit nervous about seeing the goddess. I’m a bit over weight and also I’m not sure I’ll be able to do what’s expected.
Firstly relax! You will feel very comfortable with her – that’s part of what it is to be a tantra goddess. Your weight will not be an issue or your age or her age, or even your experience. You will forget your concerns, your daily hassles and everything else she will work with who you are at essence, not your age or how you think you look. In tantra it’s called your ‘Shiva essence’. Don’t worry it will be so nourishing and reffeshing to feel so comfortable being with a woman like this.
Also you will find, it will have lasting and deeper effects with your confidence with all women. You’ll need to address your lack of confidence with women sometime; it may as well be now, with someone who can guide you.
Other questions
Why do you call the women Goddesses?
In Ancient India and China and Greece, there were women of the temples who used their sexuality in a sacred way, as healing and initiation into the mysteries and secrets of making love.
They were conduits for the mythological goddesses of love and sexuality like Aphrodite, Ishta, Venus and Shakti. In modern times, the Tantric Goddesses you meet in the session will embrace these qualities of sensuality, sexuality and grace of the ancient Goddess traditions.
The session is not religious in any way, and will not influence or change your existing religious beliefs in any way.
Goddess is not the counterpart of God!
What is the difference between Tantra Massage and what the Goddess does?
Tantric massage is a whole body massage. It is a good experience, and any of the Goddesses on this site can do that. But because you have a good sexual massage, it doesn't mean you will be any better at making love. You just lie back and receive it.
The Goddess Sessions are about what you can do to be a better lover, how to make love to a woman and to deeply satisfy you and your partner on many levels.
Here is an example of what one Goddess does in Session 1:
"I first speak to Kerry about you and prepare our session accordingly. The session takes one and a half hours. I start by making you feel comfortable and relaxed and review some of the things we will be doing. We then go into the adjoining room, which I call my Temple . It's a beautiful space where I have candles and music and soft colours. It's a sacred space, which creates a warm and intimate feeling. I like to change into transparent Goddess clothing or sensual underwear and have a robe for you. We do some preparatory things together involving connecting sexuality with love, showing you how to move your body in tantric ways that allow the sexual energy that I evoke in you to flow through us. I guide you to use breath, thought and muscle release to keep you totally connected to me and so thoroughly absorbed in the moment that nothing else exists.
While we are in Yab Yum together in close embrace, there is a connection between us on all levels and although you are filled with sexual energy, you feel no urgency to ejaculate because I teach you how to ride the waves of orgasmic energy with me as we move into the ecstasy of tantric sexual spiritual experience.
You have now moved from the theory into knowing what the dance of tantra feels like and you leave full of energy, warmth and sexual delight that you'll feel for days later.
One of the great Tantra Teachers of the past once said “When you pulsate from your toes to your head, when every fiber of your being is alive, when all the cells of your body dance, when there is a great orchestra inside you, you know you have been touched by the goddess ."
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